R U Clean?
I consider myself to generally be a “clean” guy. I bathe regularly, wear clean clothes daily, and even keep my home and car clean.
I've also been tested many times. I took a test to get my driver’s license, passed multiple tests to get a degree, and yes, have been tested for HIV/STD's.
A friend (thanks Chris!) sent me a link to this video over the weekend. It is a conversation between two potential sexual partners who met online.
I encourage you to watch and then read the rest of this blog.
Discussion of things like hobbies, sexual fetishes, cock size, and other niceties often take up most of the time prior to meeting with someone you have met online. HIV/STD testing history and HIV status itself often get little or no mention past the checkbox in your profile.
Maybe instead of saying “R U Clean” we should ask more directly:
Are you HIV+?
Have you been tested for HIV/STD's within the last 3-6 months?
Do you use condoms all the time?
Those questions might elicit a different response than simply “ru clean?”
So do you ask directly or do use a phrase such as “r u clean or ddf?”