For the members of our community living open and “out” lives today may serve as a celebration, or more likely, it may seem like an ordinary day.
That being said, along with celebrating, we should take a moment to reflect on the experiences of queer people as a whole. For many individuals abroad in places like Uganda or Jamaica living open, “out” lives would be a death sentence. Even in the United States coming out can threaten physical safety, financial security and acceptance within one’s cultural and/or community of faith.
I acknowledge that being “out” publically and working to overcome these threats can personalize our struggles for allies and opponents, and can provide LGBT youth with positive role models. However, for many members of our community being out can come at a significant price.
So, today, if you are “out” congratulate yourself for overcoming these barriers and for serving as a role model for LGBT youth, but please, respect and understand others' choices to wait to come out. Because as well all know, the complexities of our lives and identities do not make these choices easy.
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