On the subject of Douching...

Check out the latest research, published in the February 2010 issue of Journal of the American Sexually Transmitted Diseases Association, that supports the fact that douching is not only unnecessary, but it really can be bad for your health!

This particular research provides more evidence that the association between douching and Bacterial Vaginosis (BV) is causal (meaning that douching seems to cause BV, rather than women douching in response to already having symptoms of BV). The authors of the study concluded that "douching, but not other feminine hygiene behaviors, is significantly associated with BV."

There is a brief article about this on the Society for Menstrual Cycle Research website.

When you douche, good bacteria (Lactobacilli) that protects and regulates the balance that keeps your vagina healthy are removed, allowing any harmful bacteria that may be around to multiply in an uncontrolled way. And douching, as well as the presence of an untreated STD (or any irritation of the vagina or vulva) or a significant lack of good, healthy bacteria can increase the likelihood and the risk of contracting another STD including HIV, if exposed.

Anal douching, for many of the same reasons, is also unhealthy and not recommended.

But, I can't write about douching without acknowledging that there are people for whom douching might be a part of what makes them feel comfortable sexually and hygienically... if you are one of them, I still recommend trying to avoid it or doing it as infrequently as you can. But if you are going to do it, definitely don't douche immediately before or after a sexual encounter. In fact, I would recommend waiting several hours or even overnight to have sex before or after you've douched, to allow your body time to build its natural defenses up again. And if you are having sex after you've recently douched, definitely be sure to use protection properly.